• the black/dark moon - Lilith

astrroloaries:

Originally posted by sobeatifullyhuman

Aries Lilith: Energetic, active and so difficult to control. Spontaneous and impulsive, Lilith really focuses on these Aries traits. These are people who are innovative, constantly want to create something new, idealists, replace something new, constantly moving with their creations, ideals just like with their bodies, they want to break barriers, traditions and create new ones. The trend-setters. Strong, blind force and love engaging in different kinds of challenges. These are people with the ability to build themselves up, develop themselves and better themselves as well as create, act and think on their own terms, ways.

Taurus Lilith: These are people who are sensual and know how to treat their body. Lilith focuses on the security, pleasures, properties, nature side of Taurus here. Torn between the ultimate luxuries, pleasures and money. Greedy. Taurus knows how to deal with their finanical situation, with their kind of order, material things and money. Taurus also knows how to enjoy beauty and find it, cherish it and in some cases create it and be it. With Lilith this can either be translated into wanting more and more possessions, it turning into an obsession with collecting and gaining, or them deciding to leave this lifestyle and leave in total insecurity and in some cases poverty.

Gemini Lilith: In the search of identity. Fascinated with ambivalent communication and ambivalence in general. Great desire for knowledge, learning, studying and information. Gemini with Lilith here believes in change, change of information, change of everything, which is why they can modify and change some information and pass it on along with the many changes. These are people fully engaged in a world of thoughts, information, freedom and constant change. Lilith here focuses on this freedom very intensly and these people are an unstoppable force of nature verbally and mentally.  Gemini Lilith people are attracted to unique, different, unusual people.

Cancer Lilith: Lilith here focuses more on freedom. With Lilith in Cancer we see these people liberated from the traditional outlooks society has created and societal norms and views on family, traditions, origins. But Lilith here creates disbelief and distrust in their emotions. Lilith peaks the interest in ancestory, ancient, history, sacred places and people, so these people are really interested in these origins.

Leo Lilith: Lilith here focuses the people all on themselves. The world revolves around them, they might appear selfish and self-centered. But in reality Lilith focuses on the battle of the individual against the rest of the world. These are people who focus on their needs, on their happiness without acknowledging other people’s needs and wishes and happiness. They can develop their wisdom by gathering insight, information, by performing, by creating (they are really creative), by being humorous and funny, by being playful, with these fields they can actually contribute into making others happy not just themselves.

Virgo Lilith: Lilith here focuses on these people rebelling against order, particular rules and being gifted with provocative humor. Very sensual people, but they try to hide behind being calm. They over-think and over-analyze, over-obsess as well which can cause emotional conflicts. These are people who suppress their instincts and appear cold.

Libra Lilith: Lilith here represents aspirations, goals that cannot be achieved. These people desire mental balance which can lead to extremism. Very good at explaining their knowledge to others and can advice others in subjects, fields and of course relationships. But of course on the other hand they can become false spiritual leaders .

Scorpio Lilith: Lilith here focuses a lot on full dedication. These people are destined to walk a mile in the depths of the dark. Lilith here is associated with power and violence, self-injury and masochism. They are either very expressive of their sexuality and are wild, or reject and suppress their sexuality. That sexual strength gives them huge amounts of creativity and a push to create things. They must walk their path of darkness in order to see the light.

Sagittarius Lilith: Lilith here focuses on either abandoning values or rebeling against rules and orders. These are people with such desire to learn the truth, the philosophy of the world and life but in the end are disappointed with their results. They either are not particularly religious or are fanatical. They seek the balance between the spiritual and everyday life. These are people who need to be raised with honesty, because they are honest beings who look for the truth and will immediately cut ties if you lie to them.

Capricorn Lilith: Very responsible and always focused on finishing their jobs, goals, anything that crosses their mind but with the condition of putting their feelings to the side, which makes them seem cold, reserved and to some intimidating, but it means they put their feelings on pause not that they do not have any. Their success route can also be so damn lonely to them, they are very knowledgeable, vulnerable and emotional, they need to work on opening up their emotions instead of pausing them. They got issues with authorities, are always doubtful.

Aquarius Lilith: Lilith is focused on absolute freedom here and autonomy. Because of this absolute freedom these individuals might have problems maintaining strong connections with people and/or even avoid them. They estrange themselves from emotions and experience life as a project, observing and analyzing, rationalizing instead of feeling. They do not trust themselves or others. Aquarius here in Lilith has a mission to open up their heart and be careless with it, take risks, just simply – love.

Pisces Lilith: Lilith here focuses on blending in, blending with and in others and self-sacrifice. Lilith here gives these individuals the ability to feel connected to everything and everyone, with their deepest thoughts, with their soul, with the Universe. On the other hand they might see life as suffering and indulge in mysticsm and mysterious ways that life can occur, and believe in abilities to heal others.

bitchycode:

list of things im handling well currently

1.

yassmines:

everyone: wow do u ever miss-

air signs: no

Self-Esteem

astral-obscura:

May apply to Ascendant or sun as well. Aspects to the sun & Venus matter.

---

ARIES VENUS

Self-esteem is generally fragile. They seem confident and self-assured, but on the inside, their opinion of themselves fluctuates wildly, ranging from sheer conceit to self-loathing. They need validation from others, and if they’re deprived of that, there can be a lot of anxiety surrounding their value. They judge themselves harshly and it’s difficult to recover from embarrassment.

Self-esteem is increased by victory; coming in first place or being the best; encouragement; feelings of strength, bravery, and capability; independence; proving themselves (especially to themselves); learning from mistakes/defeat.

TAURUS VENUS

Self-esteem is generally steady. They’re humble and down-to-earth about themselves, with a very realistic opinion of their worth. They can have difficulty with feeling secure inside in the beginning of their lives, but once they have a solid grasp on what makes them unique and valuable, nothing can shake their confidence, and they’ll seldom depend on others to define them.

Self-esteem is increased by self-acceptance; surrounding themselves with pleasant possessions & people; being spoiled/pampered; taking time to relax & replenish their energy; low stress; aesthetic beauty; feeling natural/elegant.

GEMINI VENUS

Self-esteem is generally erratic. Their opinion of themselves fluctuates with their mood & the context. They easily become dissatisfied with the state of themselves due to their many various interests, which leads to inconsistent admiration and consequentially inconsistent aspirations. Their confidence relies on the “facts” about their beauty, accomplishments, etc.

Self-esteem is increased by satisfying details; being able to keep up with themselves; freedom to develop & change; variety & constant stimulation; having options; engaging people; being able to express their thoughts.

CANCER VENUS

Self-esteem is generally introspective. Their confidence can be unstable and inhibited, particularly when they’re young, but they tend to be more secure in themselves once they have a good awareness of their nature/identity. Their value must be discovered before they can feel or appreciate it, and it may take a long time for them to do so if they’re on their own in that endeavor.

Self-esteem is increased by support; sympathetic people; reassurance; emotional openness, catharsis; close loved ones, people who are interested in being intimate with them; positive reactions; healthy expression of self.

LEO VENUS

Self-esteem is generally glowy. They radiate confidence and pride; they’re typically secure within themselves, knowing their value & easily sharing it with others. If they doubt themselves, it’s because something external is obscuring their inner light – true self-value shines boundlessly from inside them and it’s invincible once they claim it and learn how to own it intrinsically.

Self-esteem is increased by validation; praise; attention; compliments; popularity; affection; positive, enjoyable experiences; creativity; inspiration; being received well; self-expression; grand gestures of love & adoration.

VIRGO VENUS

Self-esteem is generally weary. They can be extremely insecure, lacking confidence due to trying too hard to be worthy of it. They’re harshly critical of themselves and constantly strive to be beautiful and valuable, which takes its toll on their very essence – they tend to shrink further into themselves the more distance they feel stands in the way of what they intend to be.

Self-esteem is increased by making progress, noticing positive results of their efforts; good health & hygiene; appreciation; acknowledgement; feeling able, organized, and useful; being thanked; admiration; being understood.

LIBRA VENUS

Self-esteem is generally buoyant. Their confidence fluctuates erratically, yet gracefully; the lows are taken in stride and the highs are positively elating. They reflect the opinions of others and tend to take things very personally but they typically convince themselves that their insecurities are silly, and return to airy self-acceptance, which can easily turn into oblivious vanity.

Self-esteem is increased by acceptance; integration; inclusion; positive social interaction; peaceful bonds; being well-liked; having fashionable interests & friends; being talked about; attracting & being interesting to others; romance.

SCORPIO VENUS

Self-esteem is generally all or nothing. They’re very cutthroat in the inner competition to be better than they used to be and they can sink into terrifying depths of self-hatred if they fail themselves. If they achieve what they aspire for, they can become obnoxiously conceited. There is rarely a balance – it goes from one extreme to the other very easily (but it’s not exactly unstable).

Self-esteem is increased by distance or extreme closeness; knowing other people intimately; being mysterious; having an impact on others; loyalty; deep connections; intensity; becoming stronger after being hurt; being guarded.

SAGITTARIUS VENUS

Self-esteem is generally carefree. They always try to let go of their insecurities. This often leads to arrogance and vanity, since they sometimes their desperate aversion to being weighed down by negative feelings can result in being carried away by positive ones. They tell themselves a lot of things “don’t matter” because they don’t want to face the discomfort of low self-value.

Self-esteem is increased by enjoyable distractions; trying new things; adventure; discovery; realizations; feeling wise and untamed; being free to do what they wish & make their own decisions; getting away with bad behavior.

CAPRICORN VENUS

Self-esteem is generally brutal. They lack self-compassion and they’re critical of themselves, but they’re also down-to-earth and pragmatic about their value. Self-hatred motivates them. They use their insecurities to their own advantage, to improve themselves, even if it’s unhealthy or painful. Sometimes it works too well & they become conceited. Other times, they end up hurting themselves.

Self-esteem is increased by success; accomplishments; respect; having influence and authority; being self-sufficient; solving their own problems; having answers; leading; control; wealth; being considered important.

AQUARIUS VENUS

Self-esteem is generally contrary. They’re very concerned with what they’re not and this is how they discover their value – by resisting insecurity & criticism of all kinds and trying to prove the opposite. They do this to positive things too sometimes; they’re essentially playing devil’s advocate when it comes to their value, and that’s where they find equilibrium between the inner & the outer.

Self-esteem is increased by breaking rules; being unpredictable; challenging standards & assumptions; being given the space to openly express & define themselves; changing the minds of others; inspiring others; being a role model.

PISCES VENUS

Self-esteem is generally amorphous. They vaguely absorb both positive and negative perspectives on who they are, and the result is fluid confidence that relies on their emotional state (and the emotional states of those who surround them). They’re typically unaware of the “truth” about themselves so they never feel secure in any opinion they form about their worth/beauty/etc.

Self-esteem is increased by fantasy; absorbing positivity; devotion; sacrifice; powerful emotional experiences & connections; artistic expression; mutual reflection of beauty; being explained; poetic love, “magical” relationships.

airpharaoh:

raychillster:

airpharaoh:

Some of you have never been close enough to a scorpio, capricorn, or aquarius to see how kind and understanding they can be once they open up to you and it shows

ain’t nobody trying to befriend the devil’s children!!!

//♥//

astrroloaries:

Read for Sun/Venus

Aries:

Aries run toward the unknown with the thought that he who does not take risks, does not succeed. The tendency to win is in their blood. They like competition and they always shoutout to great competition. Their confidence gives them the capacity to express their opinions and views and fight for justice and their own rights. These are people who do not wait, they do not have patience for that. They do everything that is necessary to achieve their wanted success. They will never leave you alone, because they know how it is to be alone. They trust you if they’ve chosen you.

Taurus:

You can always rely on Taurus. When they promise something, they complete that promise. They know how to recognize the value of objects but people too, they guard those objects and people once they find them. They are cuddlers, but you will not notice it at the beginning. They also need a lot of hugs and touching.

Gemini:

They are amazing with wordplay, and their timing is amazing, they make everything so interesting and funny, all at the right time. They are great with change and listening to others’ opinions and views with understanding. They know a bit from every subject because they are so interested and invested in investigating. They are social beings, so they mostly avoid being alone. They like being surrounded by intelligent and interesting people, they like traveling. They say what they mean and it is not a problem for them to talk about their weaknesses.

Cancer:

When they let you into their heart, Cancerians will show you warmth, hugs and honest words. They will make you feel better when you are sad and will hug you when you are lonely. The warmth of these people is unlimited and deep. Because of this they first have this shell which is self-protective. They hear even that, that is not spoken. They feel when changes are coming and always recognize lies. If they are always avaliable to you, they have a special spot for you.

Leo:

When they want to achieve something, Leos do not waste time and they bravely go into action. How dedicated they are toward you, they will express in their own way, be it with gifts, with compliments, with encouragement, with heart. They are very generous, they will share everything with their friends and loved ones. They enjoy going out with their friends and the gatherings with them. They are also very funny and can make you laugh. There is something so special about Leos, they have a special energy and they will always draw many people in and be the center of attention often-times.

Virgo:

Virgos act according to plan and do not like chaos, but they definitely have their own even in those moments. Details are really important to them, so do not be surprised if they remember some important ones that you thought nobody does remember. That trait of theirs always warms their friends’ heart because it shows they pay attention. Extremely hard-working and careful. Sometimes they take more time, but the result is always positive. Loyal and always wanting to help and be of service to everyone they love, because their mind works wonders and can come up with some creative solutions.

Libra:

One of the most charming people. They value their bonds with people. If you help them with something, they will be forever grateful and will always look out for you. They look out for the people they love without them even doing something for them, they are so selfless. They are fighters for justice, diplomats who can hold their own verbally. They have sophisticated taste and always look so effortless and elegant. Tactful and careful of their words, because they are really aware of how words affect people.

Scorpio:

Scorpios are so passionate and intense, in every aspect of their lives. As we know they feel everything in a heightened mode, just like vampires do, that is why they are the vampires, which means they will love you more than anyone. Also that is how their sensitivity and carefulness is born, because of them feeling so much. This passion is their fuel. Their energy motivates everyone around them. They are capable of going through the biggest challenges life has for them, the bigger the challenge, the more interesting it will be to them. There are no grey areas for them, it is either black or white.

Sagittarius:

These are people tell you everything that is on their mind, they dislike manipulation, lies, secrets and games. They love exploring, new people, new places, new subjects, new cultures, so traveling is really suited for them. They really value their freedom and do not want to depend on anyone. They put so much into their knowledge and the journey to get there too, to educate themselves. It is easy to be around these people and love them, because they always look on the positive, bright side.

Capricorn:

Everything that they can think of, they can do. They are very ambitious, and climbing to the top is not a problem to them. Things in life are seriously taken by them, especially bonds, relationships and people. They take them seriously with a very careful, subtle approach. They do not have time for shallow people/things and conversations. Caps are very aware of their priorities and their successes, they never leave out a space for creating a family and strong friendships, they do not forget that. They know how to lead others, if they are interested in something, all atoms of their being is dedicated to that.

Aquarius:

Aquas break the rules and their goals is to be free in every sense. They break rules because those rules do not exist in their head, they are steps ahead and those rules seem so comical now and without any sense. Their world of ideas is something really valuable to them. They love connecting with people who have the same goals/interests as them. They do everything their own way and do not really care about opinions on that matter. They have strong opinions that hold many facts and creativity. They stand by their beliefs and fight for them as well.

Pisces:

If you need a shoulder to cry on, go to a Pisces. They will not tell you what to do, because they themselves dislike that, but they will listen to you and support you endlessly. Their fantasy is incredible, they have this talent for the arts and know how to find unusual solutions but creative ones, for problems. They have a big and kind heart and love healing and helping the weak or those in need of help. They always look at the good in people. They would quit their interests for a moment if they need to help someone. They are also the romantics, or hopeless romantics. They dream of their version of the perfect love, and how they will love them until the very end.

love;

astrroloaries:

Read for Sun/Moon/Venus 

Aries,  the things you do to make your partner happy is your definition of love. Your traits – competitive and lively spirit, alongside your leadership skills, influence the way you see love and you are constantly looking for a new way to show and express your love to your partner. Words do not mean a lot to you and you expect actions from your partner. You simply just are looking for equality, and not just one-sided expression of your love.

Taurus, when you are completely relaxed with a person, that is when you feel love. To you romance is being comfortable so you would not have to ask for compromise while you are alone with your partner. Your insecurity sometimes bothers you, so it is really important for you to find your, secure place with someone.

Gemini, sweet words and soft whispers mean a lot to you. The communication with your partner is of huge importance. Even though sometimes you are scattered, you are practical and your mind always analyzes what is happening. This can make you very talkative and you might forget the sound of silence when you are with your partner. When you are together you always have interesting topics to talk about, according to you it means a lot and it is love.

Cancer, as a passionate and emotional person, you like hanging out with your partner because you can relax then. For you finding love means finding someone with whom you will feel peaceful. You need a person who will help you regain your stability even when emotions take the better of you. You know it comes to real love when you want to spend your day with your partner more instead of relaxing by yourself.

Leo, even though you possess confidence, you really like being spoiled and cared for. You believe it is good for someone to take care of you sometimes. You expect the love to be just like out of a movie, where you are the center, but you are ready and you will give the same amount back at the person.

Virgo, the most important gestures in love to you are the little things between you and your partner. You notice, almost everything and you like showering your partner with attention and love anytime you can. You just enjoy the simple things like watching tv with your partner. Loalty is really important to you and you would accept everything if you know you can trust your partner.

Libra, there is no love for you without peace. It is important to you to find a person who is connected to your soul and calms you. The presence of the person makes you feel like you are at home in this Universe. The night conversations with your partner make you feel fulfilled and whole.

Scorpio, the idea of love alone excites you because at the same time you honestly believe that, that is one of the sweetest memories that you will have in your life. You want to enjoy love with your partner. Relationships are really important to you and you never compromise for your devotion toward someone. You are serious in a relationship if you are with a person who makes you laugh, with whom you have interesting and fascinating conversations, and you have the same responsibility towards one another.

Sagittarius, because you are really independent, the thought of being trapped scares you. But still, you really are serious in relationships. You expect love to be better than you’ve imagined. To you, your partner is also a very good friend first. You need your inside jokes with them, mutual plans for the future and possible adventures.

Capricorn, you may be traditional in love but you value it a lot. You do not like the vulnerability that comes in life when you get hurt, so you are responsible with love and you take it very seriously and approach it the same way. You like creating your own traditions with your partner. Little things, like dinner every Friday, movie night, hobbies night, these things are really important to you because it feels like a family.

Aquarius, for you understanding is a key in relationships. The partner needs to understand the aspects of your character which are a mystery to everyone expect to them. Critical thinking and the desire for knowledge are the things that motivate you, even in love you want a partner from whom you can learn new things. Love is like a puzzle that you want to resolve your whole life.

Pisces, your idea of love comes from every book you’ve read. With your sensitivity and softness, even the definition to love is connected to art and creativity. Your intuition is and can be seen in the creative ways you express your love. Love helps you live in harmony and makes you feel like you are in the right place at the right time.

◘ earth venuses

astrroloaries:

Venus in Taurus: These are people that like to keep the flow slow, they like to test how things will be going, if they are going in the right direction, at the right time, place, so they can be completely sure and finally make a move to finalize. They are the kind of people that bring stability and security & safety to you wherever you go with them, they are the two eyes and a heartbeat kind of home people are talking about (*also moon in taurus people*). People who are not afraid to be affectionate, Taurus & Venus as it is at home here are focused on using all of their senses fully, which means they like experiencing and expressing feeling through being affectionate and use their sensuality as well. Their sensuality is so sweet but also seductive, they can make you forget about the world and focus on being present and experiencing the moment fully. They are all about living a moment fully and slowly because that is how you get to see how lovely, how painful, how sad, how happy  it is and you know how the emotions go…. They radiate warmth, since Venus is at home here they are really amazing in everything that has to do with creating, with art, with beauty. When I think of Taurus placements I always feel like something is baking, I see white powder, I smell a perfume they created, I see hearts, I feel like home at my childhood home with a great friend. Because they go through these slow processed tests they will definitely know who to trust and be loyal to, also dedicated and focused. They can get lazy something but never lose the focus to finish their job. In love and friendships they can get possessive, because they are over-protective of people, they’ve worked and built so much with them so how can someone else have them as well. This is something they need to work on, of course with the help of the people they love and trust. Their stubbornness also gets in the way sometimes, they are very, very stubborn.

Venus in Virgo: These are people who go through great lengths to make sure the people around them are satisfied, happy and fulfilled. It may be easier for them to be a friend, but in love they put so much pressure on everything and are worrying, even nagging to make sure everything is perfect. Something they definitely need to work on. But these are the people who pay so much attention, to every word you say, to everything you like, you dislike, they listen and are great communicators themselves, they can help you so much!! Also very devoted and loyal friends. They are extremely devoted and loyal in relationships too. The attention to detail they possess can help them climb anything they are creating, even though it is earth energy I believe they are very creative, how thoughtful they are helps them make great gifts. How much they are in reality and are grounded might be of great help for those closest to them, and being of service and helping is their thing. They are wonderful. But they need to work on so many things, they put boundaries themselves, they put limits themselves, they cut themselves off. I know it is easy to say, but those of you who have not started doing this, start now, broaden your limitations everyday more and more, let loose once in a while. These are people who are so self-critical, mostly self-critical, they create such problems that do not even exist, they often think they are not loved. But they have no idea how much people appreciate them, how much people miss them when they are not around. This description turned to an advice column, but I worry so much about my virgo venus babies, I wanna help! These are also people who take it slow, do not rush them. Even when in relationships they will like their alone time which is perfectly time and reassurance as well. They still are sensitive people, fully devoted. If they do not take alone time, offer it to them, they need that recognition.

Venus in Capricorn: Proud of their stability and control. They want to take you alongside them to a journey of actually doing and showing you romantic gestures and romance, they are not afraid to do so. But until you come to that point, you will have to pass some tests, you will have to wait. They are serious about love, they are serious about relationships, they need to feel secure and safe with their partner in order to pour out their whole being there. Very sensual and inviting, might look older than they actually are. Very mature, logical they are always looking the rationality in things and taking the mature approach which is very helpful in their group of friends. Very devoted, loyal friends, they also do gestures for their friends, they go out of their way to create something their friends enjoy, something they remembered. They are also very responsible. But surprisingly funny and humorous, they would be up to do so many silly things with their friends and lovers, because they see them as getting away from problems for a while, having fun for a while before getting back to the seriousness of life they’ve accepted and have no trouble handling, but that balance suits them so well. With them always express where you want it going, so they can create the necessary environment, the necessary decisions need to be made and talked about it. But show your appreciation for them always, show how thankful you are, tell them how proud you are of them, don’t shy away from encouraging words which they will remember for eternity. If you show them the same amount of devotion and love, they will adore you forever.

astrodickology:

Me: okay, i tried really hard on this test so i should get a good grade!

God: She thinks I like her….